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Did you read “Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s Advice for Living” in The New York Times?

“Work-life balance was a term not yet coined in the years my children were young; it is aptly descriptive of the time distribution I experienced. My success in law school, I have no doubt, was in large measure because of baby Jane. I attended classes and studied diligently until 4 in the afternoon; the next hours were Jane’s time, spent at the park, playing silly games or singing funny songs, reading picture books and A. A. Milne poems, and bathing and feeding her. After Jane’s bedtime, I returned to the law books with renewed will. Each part of my life provided respite from the other and gave me a sense of proportion that classmates trained only on law studies lacked.”

This makes so much sense. And, I don’t think you need to have children to create this “work-life balance.” The first time I achieved this, I was attending portfolio school and working part-time (24-32 hours/week) at a bookstore. My week broke down to 4 days attending classes and working on school projects and 3-4 days at the bookstore. I was rarely tired even though every single day of the week I had to be somewhere or mark something off my to-do list: “each part of my life provided respite from the other.

You should try it. I know I am trying it again.

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Here’s a roundup of articles I’ve let linger in my phone’s web browser. I haven’t had the heart to close the windows/tabs, because I’ve wanted to revisit or recommend these articles.

This is a mediocre interview of Thelma Meyer, aka Mrs. Meyer. But the way she breezes through certain questions is inspiring: “I really do love and appreciate my life.” Who doesn’t just want to be satisfied and happy?

Number Five: But what if I don’t know what I was born to dooooooo? Keep trying, I guess.

This. This is everything. But then, Emily McDowell is a badass.

Big-Box Bookstores Don’t Have to Die. No, no they don’t. This is a good article about turning a company literally upside down. (Hint: The people closest to your customers are going to have all kinds of insights.)

Jim Gaffigan on being a parent: “People treat having a kid as somehow retiring from success. Quitting. Have you seen a baby? They’re pretty cute. Loving them is pretty easy. Smiling babies should actually be categorized by the pharmaceutical industry as a powerful antidepressant. Being happy is really the definition of success, isn’t it?” As if I didn’t already love him for his Hot Pocket bit.

Enjoy!

 

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Here’s a roundup of articles I’ve let linger in my phone’s web browser. I haven’t had the heart to close the windows/tabs, because I’ve wanted to revisit or recommend these articles.

Mother’s in the workplace. Interesting thing about this is it illustrates how women discriminate against other women. But, it bothers me that no one is talking about fathers in the workplace.

We’re overworking because we don’t know how NOT to work. And, maybe because we don’t want to deal with our families or personal lives.

“Let’s not talk about work/life balance: Let’s just talk about living, about making great choices both at work and home.” Enough said.

Something to aspire to: The Small, Happy Life.

Enjoy!

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I’ve come across a couple of things lately that are spot on. So, I’ve decided to share the wealth and pass them along to you.

First up: Your Late-Night Emails Are Hurting Your Team. As if we all need the Harvard Business Review to tell us this, but it’s nice to hear it from an authoritative source.

Next: James Victore’s latest Burning Question. Once again, it’s not like we need Victore to tell us this, but it’s nice to hear it from an inspiring source.

Enjoy!